How to Love Your Dog – Valentine’s Day Tips
How to Love Your Dog – Valentine’s Day Tips from Doggone Safe and The School of the Naked Dog
Christchurch, February 14, 2011 – Children want to show love to dogs by giving hugs and kisses, but many dogs don’t like this. Most dog bites are to children, by the family dog or another dog known to the child. Hugs and kisses are a major cause of facial bites to children. Doggone Safe and The School of the Naked Dog offer suggestions for safe ways to love your dog that the dog will appreciate.
Children (and adults too) often want to show love to dogs the way we show love to each other, through hugs and kisses. Dogs do not naturally understand this, or even enjoy it. Hugs and face-to-face contact can be very threatening to dogs. The dog may tolerate this for a while, but at some point may bite or snap to protect himself once he has exhausted all his means of more subtle warning. Some dogs do enjoy a hug from a special person, if it is on their terms and done with some extra scratching on the chest. Few, if any dogs enjoy hugs the way young children do this, which is to clasp around the neck and hang on. Parents should teach their children to avoid face-to-face contact with any dog (even their own dog) and to show love to the dog in ways other than hugging and kissing.
Doggone Safe and The School of the Naked Dog offer the following suggestions for Valentine’s Day about how to love your dog in a way that the dog will appreciate.
Touch Your Dog
Invite your dog to
come to you for attention. If your dog turns away or moves
away, respect his wishes and leave him alone. Many dogs like
to be near you, but not necessarily to be touched.
Scratch your dog on the side of the neck or on his chest.
Avoid hugs and kisses. People enjoy this, but most dogs don’t like hugs and kisses. They might tolerate it, but few actually enjoy it
Invite your dog to sit with you while your read or watch TV. Let him lean on you or put his head on your lap on his terms.
Some dogs enjoy a scratch behind the ears. Most dogs don’t enjoy hands coming down on the top of their heads.
Pet your dog and then stop If he tries to get you continue then you will know he likes it.
Play With Your Dog
Play games like fetch and hide and seek
that do not involve chasing or rough play.
Take your dog
for lots of walks.
Understand Your Dog
Learn to read
dog body language so that you can understand what your dog
is trying to tell you.
A happy dog pants and wags his tail loosely. He may wag all over.
An anxious dog might show a half moon of white in his eye or he may lick his lips or yawn. He may turn his head away or walk away. He wants to be left alone.
A dog that suddenly goes stiff and still is
very dangerous and might be ready to bite.
A dog with his
mouth closed and ears forward and/or with his tail held high
is busy thinking about something and does not want to be
bothered.
Visit wwwDoggoneSafe.com for more information about dog body language or have a presentation given to your organization by www.NakedDog.co.nz
Reward Your Dog
Look for things your dog does right and give him a
treat or praise, petting or play. Never hit or yell at your
dog.
Give your dog a stuffed KongTM or other long lasting chew treat to enjoy while he lies on a mat or in a crate.
About The School of the Naked Dog
The School of the Naked Dog is a Canterbury based dog training school which specializes in pet dog training and behaviour modification. They offer private training, group sessions for adults and children, homestays for dogs, Dog Bite Prevention presentations, and a rehoming service.
About Doggone Safe
Doggone Safe is a non-profit
corporation registered in Canada, Ontario and New York State
with offices in Canada and the US. Doggone Safe’s mandate
includes dog bite prevention education and dog bite victim
support. Educational seminar programs offered by Doggone
Safe are Be a Tree™ (for school-aged children) and Be
Doggone Smart at Work™ (for workers who come into contact
with dogs on the job).