Valentine’s Day Tips for Single People

Valentine’s Day Tips for Single People

14th February - It’s a commercial day that can have single people feeling low. Everyone promotes relationships but thousands of people are on their own. Maybe they haven’t having found the perfect partner yet or decided it’s better for them to be alone rather than being stuck in a bad relationship.

After being married on Valentine’s Day years earlier, and then leaving her marriage, Janice Davies The Attitude Specialist, says there are lots of bonuses of being single.

The divorce rate in 2010 was 10.2 divorces per 1,000 of estimated existing marriages. It is better to be sure than sorry she says, and likes to remind people with this quote:

If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you’ll miss finding the one who treats you like a priority.

She reminds people that before they jump into another relationship to take time out for themselves and reminds people with this quote.

No-one is going to love you if you don’t love yourself.

As the new President of the International Council of Self Esteem, Janice reminds people it’s important to feel good about themselves first. Also they are not being selfish to leave a relationship that is sour and more importantly, they are worthy of a good relationship.

She reminds people to find a positive win/win relationships rather than one that is one sided or co-dependant.

Janice shares tips from her sixteen years of being single about how to make it a day leaving s ingle people feeling positive about life.

These 18 tips can be downloaded at www.thesuccessattitude.info/valentinesday

18 Valentines Day Ideas for Singles

1 Realise that being single is a great learning curve, because you learn about yourself, do what you want, when you want and don’t have to compromise your life and decisions.

2 Do something to treat yourself physically i.e. your favourite exercise.

3. Buy yourself some flowers or cook your favourite meal. Anything that’s treating yourself.

4. Do something to treat yourself mentally by reading an inspiration or motivational book where you learn something useful for your future.

5. Clean out clutter by ridding yourself of memories of past relationships.

6. Discard and rip up and cards, photos and use this clearing phrase – “I let (insert their name) go’. They belong in your past.

7. Make a new list of the things you like about people from past you would like in new relationships.

8. Make a list of your past relationships and write down what you disliked about each of them. I.e. Bully, arrogant, cheater, liar….get this out negative stuff out of your thinking.

9. Plan to meet up with other single people or spend time with family members/friends and enjoy a fun activity i.e. Movie/dinner

10. Celebrate being single and don’t wallow in self pity.

11. Do something to ‘help others’ and make their day!! You’ll feel good as well.

12. If you are grieving for a loss, actually allow yourself to grieve.

13. Remember Valentines Day is actually a commercial event to sell flowers, cards and seats in restaurants.

14. Remind yourself that many people choose to be single so not having a relationship is not a reflection of ‘who’ you are and your worthiness.

15. Remember relationships DO have ups and downs, so being single is a great place to be until you find

16. Make an “I Love Me” card. If you don’t feel it, learn how to boost your Self belief, self esteem and confidence.

17. If you really want a win/win relationship with a partner who respects, trusts honours and loves you then you need to learn how to create this type of relationship. Take this opportunity to learn about these.

18. Make this a fun day for yourself. Give away for FREE – smiles, blow a few kisses to strangers as you drive past them in a bus, give away some Hershey kisses or a few single flowers to strangers or people you know at work. You will be remembered….as a person who made their day and will feel good as well.

Janice shares her most outrageous thing she did when single. After being given a crayfish and no one to share it with, she had a bubble bath, glass of champagne and ate the crayfish while relaxing and reading a book. It was fabulous, she said!!!!

To all single people – Enjoy Valentines Day!!

Janice’s new book The Success Attitude – Haunting Messages Guiding Us is her life journey with hindsight insights to assist you.

Upcoming Book – Successful Single Parenting. Get FREE ebooks and webinars on these websites

www.xfactorconfidence.com | www.selfesteemday.com | www.difficultpeoplehelp.com | www.attitudespecialist.com

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