Aroha for children is vital
Monday 6 March 2017
Aroha for children is vital
Loving foster carers fill this void for children and young people every day-it changes lives. On Foster Care Awareness Week, 5-11 March, we honour them for this incredible gift.
Monique Goodhew says her foster parents helped turn her life around.
"For me what made the difference was having someone who chose to be my parent for no good reason other than love - it wasn’t about them or being paid. It’s all about the love, somewhere I belong and someone to be proud of me.
"You can’t just go into an unloving family and expect to flourish."
For Fostering Kids NZ, the charity which supports caregiving families, Foster Care Awareness Week is a time to honour the ordinary people providing extraordinary support to our most vulnerable children and young people.
CEO Linda Surtees says "people who provide foster and permanent homes never do it for the recognition - they do it because they care. But they do deserve widespread support and thanks from the community. This is a great opportunity to celebrate them as powerful agents of change."
In a highlight of the awareness week, ten extraordinary caregivers or couples will receive Excellence in Foster Care Awards at a ceremony held at Government House on Friday 10 March.
Incoming chief executive of Oranga Tamariki, the Ministry for Vulnerable Children, Gráinne Moss says the award winners show us how changing children’s lives is possible.
"What the people we honour do for children is absolutely humbling. They understand that children and young people need caring relationships that last well beyond the time spent in their care.
"More than just their own love, foster carers help surround and sustain each child with people who support and love them- providing a sense of belonging that every child deserves."
Foster carers come from all sorts of backgrounds and can be married, single, working or stay-at-home parents. You can choose direct ministry support through Child, Youth and Family (from 1 April the Ministry for Vulnerable Children, Oranga Tamariki), or talk to a range of community organisations about foster caring. This means people have options to care in the way that works best for them and their lives.
This week we also say thank you to these organisations for all the work they do to find safe, loving homes for vulnerable children and young people:
Arohanui Christian Trust
Barnados New Zealand
Birthright (HB) Child and Family Care Trust Brackenridge Estate Limited
CCS Disability Action Auckland Inc
Cholmondeley Children's Centre Inc
The Dingwall Trust
Hauraki Māori Trust Board
Homes of Hope Charitable Trust
Idea Services Ltd
Iosis Ltd
The Kauri Trust
Key Assets NZ Ltd
Kōkiri Marae Keriana Olsen Trust
The Mount Cargill Trust
Ngāpuhi Iwi Social Services Ltd
Ngāti Awa Social Services Trust
Ngāti Ranginui Iwi Society Inc
NZCare Group Ltd
Open Home Foundation of New Zealand
Presbyterian Support Southland
Reconnect Family Services
Tauranga Christian Community Trust
Te Ikaroa Rangatahi Social Services Inc
Te Iwi O Ngāti Kahu Trust
Te Korowai Roopu Tautoko Inc
Te Rūnanga O Ngai Te Rangi Iwi Trust
Te Rūnanga O Turanganui Ā Kiwa
The Richmond Fellowship of New Zealand
The Lifewise Trust
The Youth Horizons Trust
Wesley Community Action
To become a foster carer you need the desire to give children and young people love, support, understanding and encouragement. There are many ways to help - start by simply calling 0508 FAMILY (0508 326 459).
Foster Care Awareness Week runs from Sunday 5 March to Saturday 11 March. Originally founded by Fostering Kids New Zealand, the week celebrates and acknowledges the role of foster carers who care for our most vulnerable children and young people.
Everyone should care for children. You can show your support by sharing this message, so it finds the special person who will foster a child.
Monique Goodhew is a care experienced member of the VOYCE - Whakarongo Mai Steering Group and Board of Trustees, the independent connection and advocacy service launching on 1 April.
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