Conversations With My Immigrant Parents Returns For A Second Season Of Inspiring And Challenging Stories
Conversations With My Immigrant Parents is a podcast and video series where immigrant whānau have conversations they normally wouldn’t, crossing barriers of language, generation, and expectation. Co-hosts and producers Saraid de Silva and Julie Zhu travelled Aotearoa meeting families from different countries, sitting in as they spoke to each other about love, disappointment, what home means to them - and where home really is.
"The second series of this project was such an exciting undertaking, and after two seasons I still feel like we've only skimmed the surface of the migrant stories that are present in Aotearoa," says de Silva.
"Julie and I have learned so much about so many different diasporic communities, and through doing this work, have also learned more about ourselves and our own families. This is what we hope the podcast offers to listeners - a greater understanding of others and also of themselves."
Zhu says funding for series two came through during lockdown, which saw the production team and talent work through an unusual and tumultuous time, which comes through in the storytelling. "Compared to the first season, our 2021 release is a bit more sombre, reflective of the anxiety experienced by us as creators, as well as by the whānau we spent time with."
"What we really want is for the series to be a useful contribution to the conversation of how we treat people, and what systems are in place that encourage us to be dismissive of communities outside of our immediate circles."
In the first episode, out today, Saraid and Julie along with sound recordist Joey Siasoco, meet Judah Seomeng and his sons Tafara and Pako, who have settled in Wellington, after immigrating from Botswana to Nelson. The episode discusses this family's experience in Aotearoa and covers themes of isolation, integration, and grief.
This series is made possible by the RNZ/NZ On Air Innovation Fund. A new episode will be released every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts, at rnz.co.nz/conversations and a cutdown version every Thursday on Afternoons with Jesse Mulligan on RNZ National.
Episodes
Episode 1: 11
March
Judah, Tafara, and Pako: Not Your
White Boy
From Botswana to Nelson to Pōneke,
Judah and his sons Tafara and Pako have experienced multiple
communities. They talk about fruit picking, single dad life,
and dreams in different languages.
Episode 2:
18 March
Anique, Navin, and Sushani:
Independence Is Great But It’s Not All It’s Cracked Up
To Be
When 11 year old Anique left Sri
Lanka she thought it’d be temporary. Almost two decades
later she talks with brother Navin and mum Sushani about
guilt, obligation, and what freedom really
means.
Episode 3: 25
March
Alby and Lina:
VIP
After four years studying in Dunedin,
Alby has just moved back in with his mum Lina in Naenae. The
two of them discuss Lina’s career, Alby’s grief, and who
our lives are lived for.
Episode 4: 1
April
Nadmea and Juliana: Red Chicken
With The Big Wings
It took Juliana eight
long years to gain residency after moving here from Brazil.
She and her mum Nadmea discuss New Zealand’s flawed
immigration system, second chances, and Tinder-ing in your
50s.
Episode 5: 8
April
Avi, Eva, Cinta, and Cindy: Side
By Side
Sisters Avi and Eva sit down with
their daughters and talk about white men who travel to
Indonesia, the fetishisation of Asian women, and leading
parallel lives in Whangārei.
Episode 6: 15
April
Donally and Alfredo: My Dad Is My
Mum
In Kirikiriroa, Donally and her father
Alfredo discuss parenting that contradicts society’s
expectations, how Filipino men are expected to ‘get on
with it’, and life after tremendous
grief.
Episode 7: 22
April
Halima, Hirini, and Kirihika:
Homesick On The Marae
Arriving from Fiji,
newly-wed Halima Stewart headed straight to Tapu Te Ranga
Marae where she raised three kids with husband Bruce. She
talks with her two youngest about navigating different
cultures.
Episode 8: 29
April
Shayma’a, Mayssaa, and Mahmud:
Something Far Greater Than This
How do we
search for something we’ve never seen? The last episode of
the series sees the Arif whānau reflect on their years in
Aotearoa and dream of a better future.
About the team
Julie
Born in Xi’an, China
and raised in Tāmaki Makaurau, Julie is a filmmaker and
storyteller committed to championing marginalised voices and
stories. She directed short documentary East Meets East for
Loading Docs in 2017 and has created content for Māori
Television, The Spinoff, TVNZ OnDemand, and RNZ. She
currently co-directs and co-hosts podcast and video series
Conversations With My Immigrant Parents for
RNZ.
Saraid
Saraid de Silva is a
Sri Lankan Pākehā writer and creative based in Tāmaki.
She started working in theatre in 2013, writing and
performing in award-winning theatre shows such as Cult
Show (2018) and Drowning in Milk (2017-2019), has
written for various websites including The Spinoff and
Ensemble Magazine, and currently works across the mediums of
radio, theatre and television. She co-directs and co-hosts
Conversations With My Immigrant Parents, and will
graduate from Auckland University’s Masters of Creative
Writing program in
2021.