Media Statement – for immediate release 4 September 2007

Spotlight on New Zealand Relationships

Relationship Services staff throughout New Zealand welcome the Campaign for Action on Family Violence.

“It’s great we’re asking New Zealanders if they are OK in their relationships and encouraging people to talk about these issues,” said Jeff Sanders, Chief Executive of Relationship Services, and a member of the Taskforce which initiated the campaign.

Family violence occurs right throughout New Zealand society, and Relationship Services believes everyone has a part to play in stopping violence.

Well known for its counselling work, particularly with couples, the reality is that a large number of the 25,000 people Relationship Services works with each year are dealing with issues around family violence, conflict and abuse.

“We have many individuals and couples come to us wanting to change things about their relationships. There are often real issues of power, intimidation, put-downs and silencing in couple relationships. People learn to shut up, not to say or do certain things for fear of their partner’s reaction,” explained Mr Sanders.

“This campaign is an opportunity for people to realise that it is not OK for these things to happen. People shouldn’t put up with it. A healthy, loving relationship does not involve violence or the abuse of power.”

Relationship Services helped develop the booklet that is available to people ringing the campaign’s 0800 number. “The booklet and the website (www.areuok.org.nz) are excellent resources for anyone wanting to improve their own relationship, or to support friends or family. Information about healthy relationships, how to recognise warning signs, and how to make changes and to support someone you are worried about, are all covered.”

Relationship Services knows that people can choose to change, and to live healthy respectful lives. “Through our Stopping Violence programmes and counselling, we support many people who are learning new ways to relate to their family. It can be done,” said Mr Sanders

“Relationships and families are hard work – but the more we can support each other as a community to say no to violence, the more chance we have of building the kind of community we can all be proud of.”

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